Sunday, March 14, 2010

I'd rather be mingling 3/14


Oh my gosh, my Monday Mingle is done on time! No, it's done early! Be still my beating heart. (I bet there are a handfull of you that didn't even know I mingled the last 2 weeks because I posted them so darn late.  But not this week. Woo hoo!)

And to top that, I even found 5 minutes to do it alone.  Miracles apon miracles, I tell you.


Don't forget, Monday Mingle is hosted by Jennifer at Eighty MPH Mom.  Join us!

Have a laugh at the freeze frame:

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And the happy 5-year-old:


Have a great week!

Monday, March 8, 2010

I'd rather focus on the positive

Happy Monday everyone!  I know a lot of people hate Mondays (and, I'm normally one of them) but this Monday is good.

Why?

Because I can breathe out of my nose again!!  Hallelujah!!

I was M.I.A. this whole past week with a killer cold.  It was doubly hard because I was on demand 24-7, as daddy was away on business.  I tell you, every time he leaves, I get another reminder of just how awesome all you single moms are.  It makes me want to send flowers and coffee to my bestie (she's a single mom to 3) because that is hard work, with no relief.

Anywho, as some of you may know, I was too darn sick to work out (steps made me winded) and I didn't have the ability to eat as well as I would have wanted.  Actually the eating was funny - at times I was fantastic (lots of fruits and veggies, water, soup, etc) then others I ... uhhh ... wasn't.  (It's really hard to cook for everyone when you have a box of tissues glued to your hand.) (Oh, and all those girl scout cookies sitting in my dinning room really didn't help matters!)

So, I stayed the same for my weight this week.  I'm a-okay with that, and I am still feeling very motivated.  My husband and I have fallen right back into our competition and there isn't an end for that in sight.  (Actually, that continues to be a really great motivator.  If you haven't tried it - you really should - especially if you all like to smack talk.  We obviously do, judging by his "anonymous" comment on my last mamavation post.  Silly man, doesn't he know he stands no chance?!)

Also, I went to a friends baby shower this weekend, and saw a bunch of people I hadn't seen in a looonnng time.  I got a lot of compliments - even a "you're looking thinner!"  So, I know I'm on the right track.

Here are a couple other random tidbits for you all:
  • I met Roni, the organizer of Fitbloggin', while at Bloggy Boot Camp this weekend, and she is fantastic!!!  You really should check out her sites - they have so many great recipes and ideas.
  • I triple dog dare you all to go try steamed artichokes.  Not the canned, mushy kind, but the kind where you have to scrape the meat off he leaves with your teeth.  It is a childhood favorite of mine, and I'm happy to say that my daughter has found the joys of it too!
  • I attended a yoga for headache workshop a week or so ago, and I plan on writing a post about that soon!  They gave us lots of good info - and I've already been putting some of it to use.

That's it for this week.  I hope all of you are having a great week, and if not, then I hope you are picking your selves up and moving forward.  Because you are Maaaavelous, dalinks, simply maaaaavelous.




PS - Did you know I always link these posts back up to the blog carnival at Bookie Boo?  The support of the Mamavation ladies has been key to me.  If you are lacking that in your life, please consider joining us.  Plus, if nothing else motivates you, there are giveaways each week. ;)

I'd rather be mingling 3/8


Time to mingle once again!  My daughter is helping me out again this week - and it might be the last tme for a bit. I love her help, but this is the third take, and mama needed some sleep!  Anywho, she cracks me up (even when she's wordy) - as you will see at the end of the clip.





Remember, to mingle, just go to Eighty MPH Mom to get the questions, link up your vid, and visit other participants.  It's easy and fun - even a 7 year-old can do it. ;)




Wednesday, March 3, 2010

I'd rather be wordless wednesday 3/3


My dog annoys the heck out of me sometimes.  You may have heard me blog or tweet about the "EA Active chewing" incident.  Or the "shoe chewing" incident.  Or the "vacuum noises scare me, so I pee" issues.

But then, there are moments like this one, and I almost forget about all the other ones.






Darn dog.


Monday, March 1, 2010

I'd rather be mingling 3/1

Happy mingling monday!  I'm so late today - still have the sickies.  But I have a co-minlger to help me out tonight. ;)


If you'd like to join in Monday mingle go to www.EightyMPHmom.com and join us! Just create your own video, link up, then go watch and comment on other mingles.  Easy peasy, lemon squeezy.

Sorry for my sniffles this week...


Monday Mingle March 1 from Mandy Sellers on Vimeo.


I'd rather have a motivating list


I brought it!  I brought it!

Before I go a step further, I've got to say a big thank you for all of the comments I received on last week's post.  I gathered so much motivation from you all!  Some of them made me scared, some of them made me look inward, and they all re-energized me.  If you skip the rest of this post (and, I really wouldn't blame you because, holy hannah am I long winded) then just read this list.  It is some of the suggestions you all gave me to get out of my rut, and get motivated.  (I repeat, these are not my suggestions - they are that of my Mamavation Sista's.)  Save them to use in your "weight loss tool kit."

  • Read your old posts, or a journal if you're a non-blogger.  Read the ones when you are sad to see what you want to avoid, read the ones when you had tons of motivation to channel that energy.
  • Think about your kids.  If you can't do it for you, do it for them - so that they see a good healthy role model.  (Twenty years from now I don't want my kids to feel like I sometimes do.)
  • Have someone give you a pep talk.  Sometimes you just have to be told "you CAN."
  • Figure out what drives you - what is the end result you want or don't want.  Will you be okay with staying in this rut forever?
  • Find someone who is in the same place and urge each other forward.  (See below for the contest results with my hubby.)
  • Try something new - new workout, new workout clothes, new foods.
  • Suck it up.  Push your self forward.  Shove the "I can't" monster in the closet and just fake it til you make it.
  • Act like who you want to be (like your future healthy self) or emulate a healthy role model.
  • Get threatened with wearing a cheese bra topless.  (Yikes!)
So, thats the list.  What follows is my progress for the week.  Seriously, feel free to skip it - I know there are a lot of posts to read, and my feelings won't be hurt. ;)

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This week, the competition with my husband saved me.  If you didn't see it last week, we had a contest to gain the most "healthy habits" points.  Points were gained by working out and taken away for eating out or even suggesting we eat out.  It worked so well for both of us (working out 5 times this week!) that we decided to keep it going.  So no clear cut winner right now.  BUT, I am one point up as a write this post. ;)

I decided to pull back on weight watchers a bit.  Well, truthfully, I have been out of it for a while, but I decided to take a new approach to my eating in general.  I was getting really tired of counting points and measuring, so I decided to put my years of WW knowledge to the test - to see if I could do it with out all the scales, and cups, and trackers.

Surprisingly, it has gone pretty well.  Every time I'm hungry, I go first for something that is nutritious in some way: fruits, veggies, high protein, fiber.  I still allow myself a bit of chocolate from time to time but I'm finding I am craving things less.  I didn't really "need" that evening snack as much this week.  Several times I thought, "well self, there's nothing in this house that is worth it, so fa-get-a-bout-it."  I'm still making progress, and of course this helps:




It has saved me a few times when rummaging in the pantry looking for "I'm bored so I might as well eat" food.  I see it, I get irritated, I silently kick myself for doing something so annoyingly useful, then I allow it to work.

All of this combined is doing good things - I'm down 2 pounds.  I brought it.  Did you?

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

I'd rather be at Disney Social Media Moms Celebration


I love Disney World.

I loved it when I went as a kid.  I loved it on my Honeymoon.  I loved it when I got to see it through my children's eyes.  I will always love it.  My husband and I joke about how we will grow old and retire to Disney World - wouldn't that be fantastic?

I didn't think I could love Disney any more.

Turns out, I can.

The Disney Social Media Moms conference has reinforced just how much I love Disney.  I could write a book on that week, but instead I'll try to condense it here.  (Try is the operative word.)



Pre-Conference

Before we even saw one sign for the conference, Disney was making magic.  They immediately credited back our money (via the Disney travel insurance) for the days that we missed due to the blizzard in MD.  They managed to combine our two reservations so that we could stay in the same room of the hotel for our whole stay.  They gave us our magical package of goodies, filled with credentials, park passes, gift certificate, lunch voucher, and the unbelievable media fast pass.  (This fast pass is better than the normal fast pass, as it lets you get in the past fast line immediately - that allowed us to virtually walk on several of the rides.)  All this happened well before I even parked my suitcase in my room.




We spent time riding all the great rides - Expedition Everest, Space Mountain, Tower of Terror, and so many more.  We had amazing meals at the California Grill (fireworks and sushi and dessert = heaven for all) and The Hollywood Brown Derby.  We got to meet Mickey and Minnie, and ride the Barnstormer 3 times in a row, thanks to rain and a sparsely populated Magic Kingdom.  We had lunch with princesses.  Princesses!



The conference hadn't even started!


Day One

The first day was set aside for attendees to check in and get their goodies, while the night was the official start of our event.  When I went back to the suite to make sure I had all the info I needed (I had already been hooked up with that great packet of stuff) I was given more swag - incredible gifts of watches, games, and more.

Later, we were transported to the new ESPN Wide World of Sports complex.  There, we watched a media press conference sneak peek at all of the great things coming to WDW.  (Princesses galore, a magical cruise ship, and amazing summer nights are all coming soon.)  We then met up with our families and had a dance party extravaganza.  My girls danced their hearts out up on that stage!




That night, as we left, we got two surprise gifts: a nice baseball hat for each of us, and new friends!  The friends came in the form of Janice (from 5 Minutes for Mom) and her family.  I said before how much my kids loved hers - but I neglected to say how much I liked them.  Janice and her husband were so nice to me and my family.  Even though 5 Minutes for Mom was one of the organizers, with a huge blog (and I, in comparison, am definitely on the low end of the bloggy popularity contest,) they were warm, and friendly, and helped settle my nerves.


Day Two

This day was started with an early breakfast (pre park opening) at the America Pavilion in Epcot.  The food was great, but listening to Guy Kawasaki was better.  Just a few things I got from him, particularly good for new bloggers like myself:

  • Tell those people who don't like the way you tweet to "UFM."  (Un.Follow.Me)  
  • Tweet your feed
  • Retweet every 8 to 10 hours (four times) in order to reach your whole audience.
  • Study new sources (like Guy's Alltop site) to figure out what your audience may find interesting.
After breakfast, we went over to the Family Volunteer Announcement at the World Showplace.  We heard more about the "Give a day, Get a day program."  We got to cheer for all the families who had gone above and beyond in volunteering.  Kermit and Ty Pennington were there to present the worlds largest (Guinness certified) sculpture made out of canned food. 

After playing in the parks, my family and I went back over to that location and got to participate in the volunteer activity.  While the canned goods project was too full of fellow bloggers and volunteers for us to jump in, we did get a chance to help plant trees.  That turned out perfectly, because my girls planted with Dan Curtis Lee (of "Zeke and Luther" on the Disney Channel) and Alyson Stoner (of the Disney movie Camp Rock!)  They took a quick break to grab some autographed photo's of Disney Channel stars, then came back just in time to see Joe Jonas and Demi Lovato!  It was a great treat for them.




Later that night, we were treated, once again, to a fantastic dinner.  Only this time, the chef was Robert Irivine, and the meal was a challenge for his show Dinner Impossible!  (I hear this episode will air in April, and I can attest that some of his food was quite yummy.)  After dinner, we got another special treat - Demi and Joe came on stage and sang songs from the "Friends For Change" spots and songs from Camp Rock.  An amazing night for young girls and parents alike.


Day Three

On this day we had breakfast (with some roving "characters" that cracked me up,) then two sessions, broke for lunch, had two more sessions, broke for for a quick mingle, then finally came back for happy hour.  While there, I won an adorable Ariel Build-A-Bear for my girls, a sweet Minnie Mouse, and received a comfy fleece jacket that really came in handy at the park.  I also got something even better - the chance to make friends with lots of other bloggers.  I sat at a table with lots of new faces, at every point of the day, and every one of those ladies were friendly and sweet.  In particular, I really want to thank Kim Tolander of Kimworld for being so nice and friendly.  She even snapped a picture for me (see below) when my little cellphone camera wasn't cutting it.




This day was the bulk of the conference sessions.  It was really just jammed packed with incredible information.  The speakers included Maxine Clark (Chief Executive Bear at Build-A-Bear); Tony Award winner, broadway mama Marissa Jaret Winokur; Model, Mom, and Entrepreneur Kathy Ireland; Social Media Guru and author (and very funny guy,) Chris Brogan; and Maryellen Hooper, comedienne extraordinaire. 

I did two very stupid things at this point: one was forgetting the battery to my good camera, and the other was not taking more notes.  But again, I did retain some great information:

  • Maxine Clark taught me that you can teach your employees to work the register, but you can't teach them to care.  You (and your employees, really) must do what you love.  She also told us a bout a wonderful young girl that she has been in contact with for a while.  It taught me that you can learn and gain so much inspiration from children.
  • Marissa Jaret Winokur taught me that mom's are strong! (Did you know she is also a breast cancer survivor?  I would have loved to interview her for The Pink Purpose.)  She makes things happen - always knocking on doors, putting herself out there.  She heard a lot of "no's" but never gave up and never turned down an opportunity for good PR. ;)
  • Kathy Ireland taught me that even us girls with high, squeaky voices can do big things.  She knows that the job of motherhood is the most important job - but one we don't have to do alone.  She also, like Marissa, got a lot of "no's" but didn't give up, in modeling or in business.
  • Chris Brogan taught me that no one turns away business.  If you go to a company (sponsor) with a way for them to sell more product, they won't turn you down.  He taught me to continue the conversation - and that is what social media is about, after all.
  • Maryellen Hooper taught me that she is freaking hilarious.  She joked about motherhood, being a wife, and being a woman.  All of it was funny, and all of it was so true!

After a quick chance to recuperate at the hotel, we rallied and went back out to the final family dinner at the Hollywood Studios.  Again, we feasted and danced the night away.  This time, though, we got to meet back up with our buddies from night one!  It was so fun to watch them all dance together.  (Janice has great pictures of Olivia, Jackson, Sara, and Riley all breaking out fantastic moves!)  Later, we were all able to ride Toy Story Mania (and over and over again) as the park was shut down to all but the conference attendees. 

Believe me, we all slept very well that night!

I know this post is ridiculously long.  And I know that I didn't even scratch the surface of everything I did and learned.  You can find even more coverage from fellow attendees of the event over at the link-up hosted on 5 Minutes for Mom.  

Thank you so much to Walt Disney World, Resourceful Mommy Media, Mom Bloggers Club, Mom Select, and 5 Minutes for Mom for putting this all together.  

It was simply amazing. 



Please remember, FCC, that while I did pay for this conference, it might be also considered a sweetheart deal as I am getting tons of lovely perks at such a low price - the same as the rest 100 or so conference attendees.  Know that also, all statements I offer on this blog (or elsewhere) about this event are my own, forthright opinions. Got it? ;)